10 things I would tell my younger self...

1. Be more adventurous while you can. 
Don't be afraid to do things because they're scary things really aren't as scary as you think they are. 

2. Care less about what people think. 
People generally don't care what you look like and really probably aren't thinking you're fat because fyi you definitely aren't, you'll find out what fat really is in a few years. People will catch up with you and grow into themselves too, you are a normal size I promise!
3. Enjoy the outside more. 
It may seem really annoying to go on a walk or go out to the park with the sisters now but just think in a few years you won't even be able to walk up the road so enjoy it whilst you can! 

4. Apply yourself more. 
You are actually really smart and if you had only applied yourself a bit more rather than playing on "the Sims" or chatting with your friends on MSN you probably could have done a bit better in school, especially Spanish the grade we dare not speak of. 

5. When you're trying to decide whether to go to 6th form or college CHOOSE 6th form. 
College was a disaster, you need someone pressuring you with homework deadlines not this airy fairy we don't care if you do your homework or not crap, that is just not how you work...

6. ...If you still decided on college don't spend your money on copious amounts of snickers and skittles you hated your appearance and where you were and they definitely were not helping you, you could have saved all that money and probably gone on holiday with it. 

7. Talk to people more. 
You shut people out because you feel like they won't have a clue what you're going through but how could they if you don't talk. People still won't totally understand because they obviously can never completely "get it" but at least they'll be able to help and talk you through it more

8. Grow your hair into a side fringe much sooner than 16. 
Your future self will thank you for it.

9. Discover dresses sooner! 
Jeans really are not your friend, I know you hate your legs but honestly those black jeans that you basically lived in from 15 to 19 were not your friends they were not good. Yes they were comfortable but really not flattering. Dresses suit you much better I promise and there are always tights for your legs, you will own a lot of black tights in the future. 

10. Be more confident. 
You only really start discovering yourself at 19, you are a nice person people don't hate you and aren't judging you and if they are they aren't people you want to be with anyway. 

As always, thank-you for reading guys and chat soon


  1. I love this post =] I think I may do this myself for a later date.


  2. NUMBER EIGHT!! Yes!! For me the age was 14 and a half but still, what was I thinking when I vowed never to grow my fringe out. I honestly look so much better now than that ew just yuck. Hahaha and yes. Confidence is good too.

    The Life of Little

  3. This is such a heartwarming post.

    I like the confidence in self ones, its something we all need to learn from an early age!





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